Tracey Sainsbury
Fertility Counsellor
Having worked as a senior fertility counsellor with exceptional teams in large clinics, I now focus on providing independent counselling for individuals and couples around all fertility issues, at all stages of the fertility journey.
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Counselling training grew from a desire to listen better and to understand loss; as a Mum through adoption, and later fostering too, I felt these would be useful skills, which was so true. My passion now includes how we cope with trauma and Interpersonal Neurobiology, self care and the importance of pregnancy; especially in terms of pre-birth attachment and familial attunement.
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I didn't intend to be a fertility counsellor, though my own fertility journey did inspire a desire to help others; initially volunteering over 20 years ago with the two charities that merged to form Fertility Network UK, and through writing the book - Making Friends with your Fertility
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My own fertility journey taught me about my ability to thrive, not just survive infertility - my counselling training taught me, my stuff is just about me - your journey is all about you! No rights, no wrongs, as often fertility decisions feel 51% right and no more; we acknowledge there is no control or ability to influence an outcome of treatment and we often fear regrets.
If you think a space just for you would help, then get in touch and I look forward to working with you.
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Considering Conceiving
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Trying Naturally
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Anxiety
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Depression
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Considering Different Treatment Options
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Assisted Conception and Mental Health
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Unsuccessful Fertility Treatment
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Grief and Loss Counselling
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Pregnancy loss​
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Loss of a child
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Loss of a partner
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Loss of a parent
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Loss of someone significant
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Surrogacy Counselling
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Donor Conception Counselling
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Relationship Counselling
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For anyone in a relationship
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For single people too​
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Secondary Infertility
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Parenting after Assisted Conception
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Childlessness
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Stress Management
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Grief, Loss, or Bereavement
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Other Issues